I am a cell and molecular biologist, researcher, scientist, nerd, hopeless romantic, music lover, Osage/Kaw/Cherokee of Oklahoma, and this will serve its purpose.
What has been going on with me personally? I have been making my life more positive and productive while healing from whiplash and adjusting to my Invisalign treatment. After a lot of thought and prayer, I ended a toxic relationship in the new year and soon met someone at coffee who quickly turned into the most important person in my life. My family tells me they have never seen me happier.
I meet my man’s parents soon, which he assures me is a big deal reserved for someone he is considering for marriage. I have already met many of his cousins. I’m waiting to introduce him to my parents until after then and he has already met my sister and brother in law. He is in the same field of work as my brother in law so they hit it off instantly. My sister actually likes him which has never happened with my boyfriends.
He takes care of me when I am sick, treats me to romantic dinners, and makes me feel like his one and only special person. We could talk for hours and do. We both have our own lives and hobbies. I have my family (niece), my cat and apartment, yoga, a job I love, and a great group of friends (love ya’ll!). He has his family, friends, a great job, a home he owns himself, and plays football. I was relieved when he loved my cooking and reciprocated his feelings for me in a way that left no doubt in my mind that he loves me and only me. We have a cultural connection since he is mixed indigenous and Spaniard from Mexico. We talk about marriage, our future children, and traveling constantly. We are planning a trip to Spain. I’m just overwhelmed with happiness and have to share with the universe. Last night I was helping him get his suits ready for a business meeting and conference. It feels good to be in love with such an amazing, confident, and motivated person.